“Floppy face, floppy fanny” is a simple technique that may make childbirth easier and more comfortable, and may even help reduce tearing. How?
Childbirth can be physically and emotionally intense. It is natural to feel some fear, tension or discomfort. However, many birth workers believe that relaxing the face can make the birthing experience easier and more enjoyable, and may even reduce the likelihood of tearing. The idea is often credited to the American midwife Ina May Gaskin, who observed that a relaxed mouth and jaw tend to go hand in hand with a relaxed pelvic floor.
The concept is based on the connection between the muscles of the face and jaw and those of the pelvic floor, vagina and vulva. When the face is relaxed, especially around the mouth and jaw, the pelvic area tends to relax too. By consciously softening the face, the birthing person aims to create a ripple effect that helps the muscles of the birth canal relax, making it easier for the baby to pass through.
Linking facial relaxation with childbirth may sound unconventional, but many people find it makes a real difference. Combined with slow breathing, visualisation and a consciously relaxed face, it may bring more comfort, less pain and a smoother birth.
Of course, how well it works varies from person to person. Every birth is unique, and many factors affect how it unfolds. Talk to your midwife for personalised advice and support during pregnancy and birth.
So why do I say “floppy face, floppy fanny” rather than “relax your mouth and jaw”? Because it is much more memorable for expectant parents! I also use “loose lips, loose hips”.
Some breathing techniques are especially good for keeping the jaw, lips and mouth relaxed. One of the simplest and most memorable is “horse lips”: breathe out slowly through loose, relaxed lips so they flutter, just like a horse.
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Sources and further reading
- Fischer MJ, Riedlinger K, Gutenbrunner C, Bernateck M. Influence of the temporomandibular joint on range of motion of the hip joint in patients with complex regional pain syndrome. J Manipulative Physiol Ther. 2009 Jun;32(5):364–71. doi: 10.1016/j.jmpt.2009.04.003. PMID: 19539119
- Dr Lauren Keller: Jaw, tongue tie and pelvic floor connection
- MamasteFit: Breathing, our pelvic floor, and labor
- Talasz H, Kremser C, Talasz HJ, Kofler M, Rudisch A. Breathing, (S)Training and the Pelvic Floor – A Basic Concept. Healthcare (Basel). 2022 Jun 2;10(6):1035. doi: 10.3390/healthcare10061035. PMID: 35742086; PMCID: PMC9222935.
- Van der Velde, J., & Everaerd, W. (2001). The relationship between involuntary pelvic floor muscle activity, muscle awareness and experienced threat in women with and without vaginismus. Behaviour Research and Therapy, 39(4), 395–408. doi:10.1016/s0005-7967(00)00007-3






































