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Nurturing Adventurous Palates: A Guide to Avoiding Fussy Eating During Weaning

Avoiding Fussy Eating During Weaning


Avoiding Fussy Eating During Weaning. Embarking on the journey of introducing solids to your baby is an exciting milestone, but it can also be a challenging one, especially if you’re concerned about the possibility of raising a fussy eater. The good news is that with a thoughtful approach and some key strategies, you can lay the foundation for a lifetime of healthy eating habits. In this blog post, we’ll explore tips and advice on how to avoid creating a fussy eater during the weaning process, drawing insights from reputable sources such as the First Steps Nutrition Trust and NHS UK.

  1. Early Exposure to Variety

Research consistently shows that early exposure to a variety of flavours can positively impact a child’s acceptance of different foods. The First Steps Nutrition Trust emphasizes the importance of introducing a wide range of tastes, textures, and food groups during the weaning period.

  1. Consistent Routine

Establishing a consistent routine for meals and snacks can help create a sense of predictability for your baby. According to NHS UK, having regular mealtimes promotes a structured approach to eating. Avoiding distractions, such as television or electronic devices, during meals can also contribute to a positive eating environment.

  1. Lead by Example

Children often mimic the eating behaviors of those around them. Set a positive example by enjoying a diverse and balanced diet yourself. Eat while your baby/toddler eats. Let them see you eat. Family meals can be a great opportunity to showcase a variety of foods and make eating a social, enjoyable experience.

  1. Patience and Persistence

It’s normal for babies to initially reject some foods. First Steps Nutrition Trust advises parents to be patient and persistent, offering the same food multiple times in different ways. Repetition is key, and research indicates that it can take up to 15 tries for a baby to accept a new food.

  1. Avoiding Pressure and Power Struggles

Pressuring a child to eat or using food as a reward can contribute to fussy eating habits. NHS UK recommends avoiding power struggles and letting your baby decide how much to eat. Trust their appetite and respect their signals of fullness.

  1. Gradual Texture Progression

Introduce textures gradually, moving from soft finger foods (baton shapes are best at 6 months of age) to gradually harder finger foods and smaller pieces. This progression helps develop oral motor skills and encourages exploration. First Steps Nutrition Trust emphasizes the importance of incorporating a variety of textures to enhance sensory experiences.

  1. Be Mindful of Portion Sizes

Understanding appropriate portion sizes for your baby’s age and developmental stage is crucial. NHS UK provides guidelines on portion sizes for different age groups, helping you ensure that your baby receives the right amount of nutrients without overwhelming them.

Remember, your baby’s main nutrition still comes from their milk (breastmilk or formula or a combination).

While introducing solid foods is an exciting milestone, it is important to remember that their primary source of nutrition will still come from breastmilk or formula. These provide essential vitamins, minerals, and antibodies (breastmilk only) that support your baby’s growth and development.

Breastmilk is often referred to as “liquid gold” for its numerous benefits. It not only provides the perfect balance of nutrients for your baby, but it also contains antibodies that help fight off infections and boost their immune system. Breastfeeding also promotes a strong bond between you and your baby.

Alternatively, if you are using formula, rest assured that it is designed to meet your baby’s nutritional needs. Formula provides the necessary nutrients for their growth and development, and it is an excellent substitute for breastmilk if you are unable to breastfeed or choose not to.

It is important to remember that solid foods from the age of six months should complement, not replace, their milk intake.

Your baby will adjust their milk intake automatically as they start eating more solid foods.

By incorporating these tips and strategies into your weaning journey, you can set the stage for a positive relationship between your child and food. These can help with avoiding fussy eating during weaning. Remember that every baby is unique, and it’s essential to be flexible and responsive to their cues. Drawing on the advice from trusted sources like the First Steps Nutrition Trust and NHS UK can provide valuable guidance as you navigate the exciting and sometimes challenging world of introducing solids to your little one.

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Affirmations for new parents

What are affirmations? And how can they help new parents?

Affirmations, aka positive affirmations, are phrases that you repeat to yourself over and over again to change your mindset. You can say them out loud our in your head. Receive them as part of treatment with your hypnotherapist or other therapist. Most commonly they help you to change a negative into a positive thought or negative into positive thinking.

Affirmations can help you feel more in control and empowered during your experience as a new parent and also when nursing your new baby!

Affirmations can improve your ability to problem-solve and decision-making while under stress such as sleep deprivation or peer pressure. Making the right decisions for you and your baby enables you to feel empowered while being the good enough parent for your baby.

You can download all my affirmations for new parents for free here.

Here are some videos you can loop if you like for when you are nursing your baby:

Using affirmations can really help new parents to focus on what they can control and let go of what is outside of their control.

Create a bubble of calm, confidence and control. Set aside a few minutes every day to focus on yourself and your bond with your baby. Imagine, that you and your baby are inside a bubble, your safe space. Leave all the daily chores, visitors, etc. outside that bubble. It’s just you and your baby. Focus on your breathing. Use a calm breathing technique which suits you. You can use the moving circle in gif below if you like. For that designated time, it is just you and your baby. In a safe space, focusing on your bond.

Circle of calm, confidence and control – a technique for new parents

Alternatively, you may also focus on your positive parenting affirmations while you are inside your bubble of calm, confidence and control.

Practice your affirmations daily. You’ll feel better for it. Look after yourself and your mental health. Making time for yourself and your baby will strengthen your bond, improve your mental wellbeing and may also improve postpartum healing.

Having a baby means that your time for yourself, for you as a couple and time with friends and family will have to be divided differently. You have to find a new balance which works for you and your family. Both mothers and fathers benefit from bonding with their baby and taking care of themselves. Your family benefits from parents allowing time and space for themselves, as a family together as well as parents as a couple.

Have a look at the images below. Each circle represents an person. The larger ones (grey and blue) are the parents and the smaller one is the baby (lilac). Where the circles overlap is how much time they spend together. There may be very little or no couple time possible unless you get some help such as a postpartum doula or babysitters… One parent may spend more time with the baby than the other. The time where there is no overlap with a person, is the time you’ll have to divide between chores, you-time, work, family and friends, pets, hobbies etc. The process of re-balancing your personal time to a balance that works for you and your family, may take some time. Give it time. Use some time every day with positive affirmations to help you re-balance your time and life.

Sources and further reading

  • F, H. R., Supriyana, S., & Runjati, R. (2021). Self-Empowerment, Affirmation And Relaxation Training Against Stress Levels And Cortisol Levels In Pregnant Women: Systematic Literature Review. STRADA Jurnal Ilmiah Kesehatan10(1), 335–343. https://doi.org/10.30994/sjik.v10i1.636
  • Hill Zoelene, Spiegel Michelle, Gennetian Lisa A., Pride-Based Self-Affirmations and Parenting Programs, Frontiers in Psychology, Vol. 11, 2020, https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2020.00910/full
  • Sari, R. P., Vivi Silawati and Putri Azzahroh (2022) “The Effectiveness of Positive Affirmations Combination of Face Acupressure and Aromatherapy Against Anxiety in Preoperative Sectio Cesarean Patients At Sentosa Hospital Bogor”, Science Midwifery, 10(3), pp. 2164-2170. doi: 10.35335/midwifery.v10i3.629.
  • Wiesenfeld, B.M., Brockner, J., Petzall, B., Wolf, R., & Bailey J. (2001). Stress and coping among layoff survivors: A self-affirmation analysis. Anxiety, Stress and Coping: An International Journal, 14, 15–34.
  • Worthman C.M., Plotsky, P.M., Schechter, D.S., & Cummings, C.A. (editors). (2010). Formative Experiences: The Interaction of Caregiving, Culture, and Developmental Psychobiology. New York: Cambridge Univ. Press